Saturday, February 7, 2009

Memorial Movie

Karalyn made this movie to commemorate her Grump's life.
By the way, when dad was a boy, his dog's name was Fido.

Angels were important to dad and at the end he wanted me to read from Psalms. He preferred the King James version of the Bible.

Psalm 91:11

For he shall give His angels charge over thee to keep thee in all thy ways.

Psalm 34:7 is engraved on mom and dad's grave marker:

The angel of the Lord encampeth round about them that fear Him, and delivereth them.

Friday, January 23, 2009

Newspaper Obituary

To be in the Vancouver Sun on Saturday, January 31st, and Vancouver Province on Sunday, Feb. 1st. A longer version with names will be in the Kelowna Courier on Satuday, January 31st.

Predeceased by Kay and Vera, four sisters; survived by three children, their spouses, eight grandchildren, one great-grand daughter, numerous family and friends. Dad was known for his humor, music, unselfishness, and love for others. Funeral is at Springfield Funeral Home in Kelowna Feb. 2nd 10 am. A Memorial at Church of the Nazarene, 9012 - 160 St. on Feb. 7th 2 pm.

Thursday, January 22, 2009

Kelowna Service

Funeral Services will be held at Springfield Funeral Home, 2020 Springfield Road, Kelowna, BC on Feb. 2nd at 10 am with a graveside service and reception to follow.

Just a bit of information. An open casket will be set up in the viewing room by 9 am. When people come in, they are given the opportunity to pay last respects.

The family meets here ahead of the service. At 10 am the casket is closed and the minister prays. Then the casket is wheeled into the chapel, the family will follow it in and the service commences. The cemetery is about 10 minutes away from the funeral home.

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Spread the Word

Please let other people know the service dates posted in the obituary below. If you are able to attend it would be helpful if you let me know, so I can plan what is needed for the reception. You can do this by e-mailing me at lenygaard1@shaw.ca or by phoning our home with a message.

Many thanks to all of you who are supporting the family with prayers and understanding. Much appreciated.

By the way, here is the contact information for the Gideons. For those who come to the memorial, donation cards will be available.

The Gideons International In Canada
501 Imperial Rd. N. • Guelph • ON • Canada • N1H 7A2 • Tel: 519.823.1140 • Fax 519.767.1913 • E-mailinfo@gideons.ca• Bibles-By-Phone: 1-888-482-4253 • ©2009 Gideons. All rights reserved.

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Springfield Funeral Home

Dad's funeral will be held at the Springfield Funeral Home in Kelowna. I have arranged for dad's remains to be taken to Kelowna. He should be in Kelowna by tomorrow night. The funeral home has a chapel, a viewing room and a reception hall, which will be available to us.

I have not yet set the date but will post as soon as this information is available.

Now I need to see about a memorial in Surrey. I want to do this to honour and respect the friendships and connections that he made here.

January 19, 2009

Dad went to be with the Lord at about 11:15 am on January 19th. His passing was peaceful with family members holding his hands. Christian music was playing from an old Moody Bible Institute program that he had recorded years ago.

We are missing Dad and always will.

I have to make arrangements yet and will keep everyone posted as I know more. As yet, I do not have a timeline. Some sure things

-dad will be buried next to mom in Kelowna
-there will be services in Kelowna and in Surrey

Dad wanted memorial donations to be made to be made to the Gideon Bible Society. Donations may be made by phoning 1-888-482-4253 and paying by credit card. I am also trying to get some mail-in donation cards/envelopes from the Gideons to be available for the services. Such donations will be preferable to flowers.

Sunday, January 18, 2009

January 18, 2009

I have not been home and did not have computer access so was unable to give updates. Right now, the Respiratory specialist has kindly allowed me to update this blog.

I have had consultations with five doctors including the Respiratory specialist within the last few days. Dad has very little time left unless there is a miracle. The odd patient does rally.

He is suffering respiratory discomfort, which gives the sensation of drowning. He is going to be given low dosages of morphine to relieve this discomfort and take the edge off what is happening to his body.

He may have oral fluid or food if he wishes. The IV with the multi-vitamins and glucose will be continued, so he doesn't starve to death. He is not strictly NPO

Some medications will be discontinued and most that are continued will be administered through an IV. He will keep the
-nitroglyceral patch
-lasix for heart failure
-cream for fungus on his skin
-fluconazole for chest fungus and antibiotics to treat pneumonia
-CBI (continuous bladder irrigation) will be continued because if clot travels to bladder it is extremely painful
-blood pressure meds have been stopped as his bp is so low
-warfarin will be restarted to thin his blood. The heparin was discontinued last night due to bleeding from the mouth.


Last night I learned that his heart is enlarged by 30% from what it already was. The pneumonia on the right side is worse than the day before and he has a lot of free fluid in his chest.

His kidney function is at 50% which is not terrible
He has a breathing problem but he is not gasping for air, so this is considered to be moderate

The goal is to keep him comfortable. If he survives tonight he will be moved to palliative care, which is either in the hospital or in a separate building across the street.